Twisted


Dear varah bodah lobivaa mi alhage blogah..
Vedhumaai shukuraai dhen ves huri echchakun salam krameve.

I am always telling you how weird my family is.
There really is no time to get bored.
There is always a new series of tackling events going on.
Serious events full of tragedy.
I guess this will be a new twist to it.

Yesterday around 1pm, all our phones were busy discussing a matter which just cropped up.
It was regarding my cousin, Fitey.
He is studying at our stupid island.
Now he is in 10th grade, about to finish his o'level.

He and his dad never get along.
Don't ask me why.
That remains a mystery.
His dad scolds him every now and then and they hardly talk to each other.
His dad seems to have a rough way of advising him anytime he creates a mess.
Believe me, his dad's attitude towards him affects him mentally and this has a negative impact on his behavior.

Through out these evolving, he becomes involved with drug addicts and he is labeled as a bad boy.
He, himself is a gangster and that's how he got the elite name of 'FITEY'

I blame all his 'degrees' on his dad. I take it that his dad has to get all the credits of his bad behavior. Not that he does not has a responsibility role there.
He was never shown any care or love towards him by his family and especially his dad.
Most of the time he was not even considered while buying new clothes for occasions like eid.
He has to depend on what we give.

I personally give him all my new clothes and I do transfer him credits to his mobile when he asks for it.
Unlike his parents, I understand what kind of situation he is trapped in.
It's about time he choose some side.
I don't want him end up being a drug addict.
Even if I can't give money, I help him as much as I can.

Hm.. Back to today's twist dho.

He threw something on to roadside and that thing hit a pickup.
This created a scene and he got suspended for 5 days.
I guess that is far better a penalty than getting expelled.
And this time he was about to get expelled.

After this, his dad ordered him out of his house and disinherited him.
Worse, his mom was warned if she offers him anything in anyway she should expect to get a divorce.
She has 3 children to raise including one infant.
Out of desperation she called my sis currently in male'.
He was left to be hungry till then.
We could not do anything then and there.
We are miles away.
Only our big bro is there and by then he too was gone to fishing.
Our house was 'bodu thalhu alhuvafa'.

We called one person after the other, to ask to offer him food just till sis can get back there.
Now things are getting cool and he is staying with my big bro.
He is being treated just like when he was treated when he was a child.

Lets hope he keeps to his good track this time.

I await for another event of things tomorrow.

With lots of ummeeex...
Mage blog ge veri kaleyge:)

10 comments:

  Anonymous

January 30, 2009 at 8:33 PM

dgdfddf

  Solaa

January 30, 2009 at 9:17 PM

"dgdfddf" hey comment kurey thoa balaaleetha??

young age ga nuvisneygne.... wisneynee dhen kanthah thah goes veema.... better not to blame the family.. if you are doing that you are also one of them.. keep up writing and be a good listener and try correct the mistakes

  Anonymous

January 30, 2009 at 10:16 PM

nuvane ehn.. ma hama varah visnafa mi blame kranee ena ge family ah..

  Anonymous

January 31, 2009 at 1:03 AM

Really. u always have somthing "interesting" going on in ur family dho.
aslu gina kudina emeehunge dad ina ehaa nugulenee keevebaa? ehaa hiyaalu thafaatu vanee kyevetha?? i dunno. solah bro need ur advice!

Bdw may b edm is back igey...MAY BE... :p

  Mike Abraham

January 31, 2009 at 12:07 PM

@edm... gina kudhin ge therega does it include u???

@sola... sola ah dad ey kiyagen vaki kon advice eh dhevenee... ena himself is not close to his dad.

  Hushama

February 3, 2009 at 11:05 AM

hehe.. lolx.. family ah ves dhen blame kureven eba oii dho... asluves dad in ehaa dharin nakaa nugulhey dho.. :P :P.... hama gaim ves m not dad type....

  Anonymous

February 3, 2009 at 12:08 PM

hehe.. husha ves not dad type..
ahannakah nege why u guys are 'not-so-dad-type'

anekka something went wrong during ur birth????

  Hushama

February 4, 2009 at 1:23 PM

hehe.. vedhaane dho dad men abadh kairy nuthibeythy kameh.. m mom type... my dad akyy boat dhathuru kuraa myheh v ma varah madhun nu dho dhimaa vaanyy.. ehnve kamah vedhaane.. dhen neyge ehn myhun kyve kameh...

  Anonymous

February 4, 2009 at 5:09 PM

bne eh nu.. 'nufeni gina dhuvas veema lobi bodu vane ye'... surely dis doesnt apply to u?

  Hushama

February 4, 2009 at 10:08 PM

heheh... ehn vey tha?? lolx.. neygeyne nu.. i dnt kno nythng abt luv.. :P lolx.. lolx.. i dunt kno any type of luv.. pakaaaaaaaaas.... :P